Sunday, June 7, 2009

Signs That Your Guy is Cheating


Do you sense that your man is cheating when he is not with you? Or worst is your instinct telling you that he is sleeping around? Surely, this is not a totally fierce feeling to have. However, you can avoid this by being attentive of these signs:

Is he most of the time spaced out?
Looks blank and out of touch. When asked how he is, his default answer is, “Yeah, I am okay. I am just tired”.
Suddenly he complains that you are wearing the wrong clothes or using too much make up.
Reality is you have not changed anything. But all of a sudden you look ugly in his eyes. Ouch!
His grooming and hygiene improved by a mile
For years you tried to convince him to get a new haircut - but he refuses and ignores you. Then out of the blue you see him sporting a clean cut. He also smells good, mind you.
Has a new watch or jewelry
You noticed that he has a new watch and claims his Mom gave it to him. You better check if his Mom is still alive!
Irritable with almost everything
Anything you say or do irritates him. This results to friction. And Walla! You made him mad so he can be away for a while.
Unscheduled conferences/trainings out of town or abroad
These things normally are scheduled. If he suddenly announces the night before that he needs to attend a seminar tomorrow, think twice. Companies usually calendar these events a month before.
A lot of people are dying!
People are constantly dying like there is a plague. Actually this is very good excuse to be away from you and to be out late.
Stays late in the office to render overtime
He stays late in the office which is totally not him.
His closest friends are trying to avoid you
Why? Because chances are his closest buddies are aware of the crime their friend is doing. They feel guilty for not telling you. Instead they just avoid you.
Friends or relatives are celebrating birthdays and you are not invited
You used to be inseparable - but lately you can’t tag along because it's a family affair.
Avoids crowded places like malls and movie houses
It used to be fine to stroll and do window shopping. Now you are confined dating in some unknown places.
Mobile phone is always kept away and on mute mode
Before, you see his mobile phone lying around carelessly – but this time it’s all of a sudden kept inside his pocket.
Has to stay out late to comfort friends because of a lot of issues.
When asked where he has been last night; his usual reply is, "You won’t believe what happened last night. Maria and Pedro had a messy fight. I had to be there”.
Can’t pick you up after work because his car is being serviced.
Even if it’s signal number 3, he can’t pick you up to drive you home - because his car is being serviced.
He cannot be contacted. His mobile phone is off.
Why? The battery got drained. Or probably his mobile unit is acting up on him. Believe it, or not!
Looks and acts tired when he is with you.
His eyes are all red and he yawns every 5 minutes. You can blame him, right?
Accidentally calls you another name
Totally sloppy but it really happens. It happened to me before! Suddenly your name is Mimosa!
You received a text messages not meant for you (missed sent)
You texted him asking what is he doing. Then he replied saying, “I can’t wait to see you again tonight”. It sure sounds sweet. But come on! Put some logic to it, please.
Recalls events that you did together but it never really happened
He claims that you have seen a certain movies together months back. However you are certain you haven’t seen it. You don’t even know that movie was shown. Chances are he was with a different company.
You discovered he has: a second mobile number, second Facebook account and another email account.
Of course he has to be innovative! He needs another identity to suit his complicated lifestyle.

If your man is behaving a lot like these (and you feel like something is fishy), the best way to deal with it is to confront him! As the “other half” this is a privilege you have. Chances are he will deny (of course!). Lay down your cards and pour your heart out. Based from his reactions, you can pretty much tell if he is telling the truth. That is… if you have something between your two ears.


antonijan on June 07, 2009 3:02 AM said...

is this based from experience?

Chai said...

must read for all who are in a relationship!

Eric Capacia's Fierce Blogs on June 07, 2009 1:40 PM said...

@ antonjian

Combination of personal experiences and others :)

Eric Capacia's Fierce Blogs on June 07, 2009 1:41 PM said...

@ chai

Thanks Chai :)

Joan Reyess said...

I agree on this. Most of the things here were the actions done by my ex boyfriend... He even went as far as killing his grandpa (who is still alive) just to be away for a week.. Sad but true...

Thanks Enrico

Leslie said...

Tol baket naman kailangang mangbuking! LOl

Pero kudos! Huling huli mo mga drama ng mga ombre!

Teodora N. on June 07, 2009 5:12 PM said...

Hello, I really liked your blog. I believe there's a lot of truth to these signs. Teodora N.

Eric Capacia's Fierce Blogs on June 08, 2009 11:23 AM said...

@Teodora N.

Thanks for reading my latest entry. See you around!

harry seenthing on June 09, 2009 2:44 AM said...

wow is very experiance, about that......thank for coming in my friends

Shankha on June 22, 2009 12:41 AM said...

Nice post with a really important information. Thanks.

Eric Capacia's Fierce Blogs on June 22, 2009 3:17 PM said...

@ Shankha.

Thanks for reading :)

Anonymous said...

another one is if your mom catches him in a lie or theres hickkis on the neck
thats what i got tired od the lieing and cheating for 2 years
so i left him
im single and im happy

Anonymous said...

This list of practical information is a must-read. Nice post! :)

Shabnam Sultan on July 03, 2009 1:49 PM said...

Nice post. A must read for people who are in a relationship.

Eric Capacia's Fierce Blogs on July 04, 2009 10:24 PM said...

@ Shabnam Sultan

Thanks for reading :)

Bryan on July 13, 2009 9:43 AM said...

Galing ng color combination nito ah. Parang may pagka-3d yung red color. Or is it just my eyes?

Eric Capacia's Fierce Blogs on July 14, 2009 6:48 AM said...

@ Bryan,

Hi there... Thanks!

I used CS3 to create the text/pic :)

Ollie said...

Finally, if you sense something wrong, CONFRONT IT!

There is nothing wrong with PROPER communication. Just make sure you present your evidences in a calm manner.

I can assure a very mild mannered talk can soften the hardest of hearts.

Anonymous said...

Why are we taliking here with boyfriend cheating,only, how about girflriend or wife? women are always good in hiding secrets..too good...!!

Anonymous said...

Violence against women...i agrree on that....but what about violence , caused by women, who wants to have more than one "PAPA", so that when one is gone, there still one more or two more to keep.

Anonymous said...

Women, if they really want to break away, they should be honest and frank enough to say, that she already have found a new one...and stop asking for support....!some just cannot, they're just too greedy to stop recieving financial support.

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